Loss of Friendship or Thought of Rejection

Men are so analytical, yet they DON'T realize just how many their attitudes about women hinder them from finding true love....

I wanna talk briefly about the majority of men that are AFRAID to date their friends.

Men ALWAYS wonder where the good girls have gone, even though FEW men are willing to give a REAL WOMAN the chance to LOVE them.

When MOST men meet a girl that's fun, CUTE, nice, sweet, easy to talk to, etc. rather than considering her as a candidate for romance, the typical man locks her into the "FRIENDS" box & throw away the key forever.

Is it any wonder why men have such difficulty finding TRUE LOVE, when their minds are programmed to classify GOOD woman as being only good for friendship?

But, when you ask a man why they do this you'll usually hear "Because I DON'T want to lose the friendship" even though they tend to maintain contact with their ex-girlfriends anyway.

The risk of catching a lot of stuff for saying this, I'm just going to be honest....

I really DON'T buy it when a man says that he DOESN'T wanna risk losing a friendship.

MOST men have a deep-rooted desire to feel like they're IN CONTROL of their interactions with women.

The TRUTH is that MOST men AREN'T really afraid of losing the friendship.

They just want to have a girl to say they have known forever and treat differently from other girls. To me, I don't think that is right.

If a man decides to want to date his female friend then he should treat as good as the previous girlfriends he had and don't treat her like you don't want to talk to her and then keep the relationship going for only a week breaking up with her and start dating other girls after the breakup. I should know it happened to me.

My belief is that because guys get a kick out of breaking up with girls, the vast majority of women have an enormous FEAR of being rejected by a man they want!!!

They get a rush out of dishing out the pain but, they DON'T EVER want to be on the receiving end of rejection.

MOST women claim that it ISN'T ladylike to approach a man that they're attracted to they expect him to come to her instead] but, if I were to breakdown the percentages,

I'd estimate that:

5% of them are independent & liberated enough to throw gender roles out the window & approach any woman that they're attracted to.

25% say that it's NOT manlike & REALLY feel this way

40% say that it's NOT manlike; when the truth's that they're really just SCARED to do it

30% would NEVER approach a woman because some of these ladies are stuck-up &

EXPECT every man to make the 1st approach [even though they're planning to reject most of them just for the fun of it anyway].

These attitudes are what I truly believe are a PRIMARY CONTRIBUTING FACTOR to mens failures in love today & their repetitive poor choices in lovers.

GONE is the generation that believes a friendship is the foundation for a lasting relationship & as a result, men have programmed themselves toward chasing the woman that will NEVER be there for them [while letting fear drive them to neglect EVERY woman that would be].